can't do a thing with you
You're stubborn, wild, or past talking sense to.
Also called I can't do a thing with you.
Updated September 21, 2026
can't do a thing with you pronunciation
/kant doo uh THING with yoo/
Meaning
Said when somebody will not listen, settle down, or take a hint. In redneck and rural Southern homes it often comes from Mama or Grandma after you've already been warned twice. Tone can be half fond and half done with you. It is not a compliment, but it is not always a full cussing either.
How folks use it
- “Lord help me, I can't do a thing with you once you get that notion in your head.”
- “She's sweet as pie till she digs in, then you can't do a thing with you.”
Origin and etymology
The wording is plain English, but the cadence is classic Southern family scolding. You hear it in older country and blues talk too, usually aimed at a hard-headed kid or a grown person acting like one. Exact first printing is hard to pin; the meaning has stayed steady.
Frequently asked questions
Is it always mean?
Not always. Plenty of folks say it with a sigh and a half smile. Still means you wore out their patience.